Do we all have certain people in our lives, who after a certain point, are neither friend nor foe? People we have nothing in common with yet can't really let go off either.
People who have damaged us so frequently and so irreversibly that we will never trust them again yet not forget them either.
People we have been close to, or so we thought, only to realize that we hardly mean anything at all to them.
People we care for but can never count on in our own times of need.
People who never understand us or always misunderstand no matter how we try to explain?
People who we want nothing to do with yet can't shun for they continue to mean so much to us?
People we want to say so much to yet don't because it wouldn't make any difference at all.
People we want to start over with yet won't because our own ego ends up being humiliated every time we try.
People we wish we could hate yet continue to love despite the nasty ways in which they treat us.
People whose pain brings us sadistic pleasure just because they have hurt us over and over again, albeit unintentionally.
People who have lied to us and let us down and bestowed upon us horrible memories that still bring tears in the middle of the night when we can't sleep.
People we feel we should not have known for they were never meant to be ours.
People we should discard from our lives but who somehow remain an inseparable part of it.
Yes, perhaps we all have such people around.
People we have nothing left to say to.
Except perhaps a silent, inconspicuous 'Goodbye'.
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10 scribbles scribbled back to me:
You hit the nail my friend! You too? I thought I was the only unlucky one to have such people around me! A Mental Goodbye is the best way to handle them as they never change!
Sigh I can so so relate to this post....Some ppl whom somehow we can never say goodbye to and yet nothing is left...because our heart never seem to say bye....
Looking at the positive side of it, these are the people that someday make us realize the importance of having those special few that did stand by us, that small bunch who would otherwise have been lost among the crowd. The special ones.
aJ
Waow! What an explosive entry into the blogging!:-) welcome...yes at some point in our lives, we all have people like these...time to move on..what is done is done...
How is it that every time I am in a dilemma, I read ur post and find an answer.. This isn't the first time it has happened..
Word.
Girl, Just walk on by!
You will find the good ones too, for good :)
Cheers,
Blasphemous Aesthete
is that how love is? and if it is what is called love , should it be like this?
what is love ?????????
nywayz the girl who ate alone wala post was really good n somehow i had started imagining myself as dat gal who z waiting for somebody to break into her cocoon!!! awwwwwwww! poor me :P :) hihihihi
@ Ashwini, thanks.. yes, I guess quite a few people would relate to the feeling of this post..
@ S.G, absolutely!
@ Aakash, yeah..there's always a positive side, after all :)
@ Muhammad Israr, I think there's some misunderstanding, I'm not new to blogging, have been doing it for 3 years...but thanks for the read, the follow and the comment!
@ Chanz, that makes me smile :) Hope you're okay girl.. and keep reading my blog then! :P
@ Amna, :)
@ Anshul, rightly said :)
@ Megha, complex questions those! :P and don't worry, I often imagine myself as that kind of girl too. lol, that's why the post was written. :P
Yes, we are foolish enuf to give such people importance in our lyf but what I have experienced is that the one who doesn't care for u is not worth ur care.. dey r just worth of being kicked out of our lyf as well as our mind.. :P
Most importantly LUV YOURSELF:)
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